Post # 1
Ok- I feel like this wedding planning is taking control of me! I feel like if I’m not talking about work- all my conversations are about wedding wedding wedding. I hate the feeling that I am driving all my friends and family crazy- but the truth is, wedding is all I think about because its what I’m going through right now in my life. I grew up in a very small town where people really don’t spend a lot of money or go as crazy with elaborate weddings. So I feel like my family can’t really relate to all the details that are important to me- chiavari chairs, glass chargers, wedding band, the right linens…etc. Also I am planning an Ohio wedding while live in Southern Ca and working 60+ hours a week. Can anyone relate? Not sure if this even makes sense- just needed to vent!!
Post # 3
Oh you are preaching to the choir dear. I am a full time student and work part time. I am so stressed with everything and I always find myself talking about details then feel bad lol It’s okay and normal. You have a lot on your plate and weddings are so time consuming!
Post # 4
and it feels like such a big deal to you- so everything seems more sensitive when everyone else doesnt make a big deal….love this little bee family 🙂
Post # 5
I know exactly what you are thinking. My FI had us create a wedding meeting time, where I was allowed to talk about wedding stuff all I wanted, but I couldn’t talk about weddings for very long any other time of the week. It was ridiculous how much I would talk about wedding stuff. I recognized it in myself, but I couldn’t help it! Now we just got a dog, so now that’s all I think about. Apparently I have a problem with obsessions.. haha.
Post # 6
I do the same and drive myself nuts….i figure people would tell me to shut up if they didn’t want to hear it….but a lot of people ASK me for details, so maybe I’m just lucky 😀
Post # 7
- Wedding: March 2012 - Father's Vineyard Church/ A Touch of Class Banquet Center
I’m juggling 19 credit hours (Of which 9 are 400-level courses that are VERY time consuming), working full time, and wedding planning. I hear how you feel!! Just when you become overwhelmed, just focus on the most important part of the day: you are marrying the love of your life. Everything else just seems so miniscule when you do this! Keep your head up dear!