Ugh… vent about friend

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
676 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Some people just never learn.  There is nothing you can really say anyways because he obviously hasn’t learned from the past.  All you can really say is congratulations and wish them the best.  

Post # 4
Member
58 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@alyssaC:  You’re right, he’s being an idiot, a huge one. He’s thinking with the wrong head! 

I imagine they’ll make you pick a side when it all comes crashing down. 

Get ready! 🙂

 

Post # 6
Member
11379 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@alyssaC:  it sounds like they’re made for each other.  misery loves company.

i’d keep my distance.

Post # 7
Member
3268 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@alyssaC:  Yuck, they sound like the kind of people I would just delicately remove from my life. Do you really want to be friends with him with this mess going on? Obviously you would probably love to say, “are you crazy?! That is a terrible idea! Look what happened before!” Honestly, I think that it might be better if you do say something like that– that way, next time the stupid relationship blows up on them, he won’t come complaining to you and asking you why you didn’t tell him not to do it. . . whatever. I would tell him what I thought and cut off contact. I understand that he is a long-time friend, but why waste time on a friend who you know will constantly be whining to you about a bad decision that you completely disagree with in the first place?

Sorry to be so blunt. . . but I have no patience or time for people like that. Do you?

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