Post # 1
UGH. I am SO pissed off at my Fiance it is so not funny.
Background: I am very NOT in shape. Most people think I am, because I look skinny and toned, but truth is that I am super SUPER frail and weak and not strong. So, I want to get more in shape, and get used to walking. (FI is extremely fit. He’s into all sports, and is good in all of them, and could literally run circles around me- and he has, in a joking way).
Situation: We went out for a ‘fun run’, and we start off okay- by okay, I mean that I began wheezing approximately 5 min in, and laughing it off. However, I got a great burst of energy and start running without cramping or wheezing for a good long time. I felt AWESOME! I ask for encouragement, he gives it, then he pisses me off by running off really really fast and not looking back. He claims he thought that I would catch up with him (I got super pissed and slowed to a very verrry slow-paced walk). I eventually get back home, where he is taking a shower.
I am SO PISSED AT HIM RIGHT NOW.
He keeps apologizing, but really, damage done, IDIOT.
I was going to make a strawberry-banana smoothie for us both, but NO MORE.
UGGGGHHHH. How do I feel better, ladies?
Post # 3
@Double_rainbow: I think you should make a strawberry banana smoothie for yourself. And not him.
That was a pretty lame move on his part.
However, I don’t think he was trying to be malicious..he was just being a dumb guy. I’m sorry 🙁
Post # 4
Haha, I did. Thanks for the reply.
I feel much better.
He better not do that again!
Post # 6
I think he slipped into “Look at me the powerful man” mode. Insensitive? yes. A hanging offence? no.
Oh and well done 🙂
Post # 7
Yeah that would annoy me, too. He definitely wasn’t trying to be a jerk… he was just being stupid and not thinking.
I hope he felt bad after he saw how upset you were!
Post # 8
@paula1248: i agree men like to show off its somewhat primitive and egotistic but they just want to show you what they are working with
Post # 9
I’m not annoyed with him anymore.
I would have been fine if he had said something like, “I’m going to sprint home to get more of a workout, see you back home?” Totally fine, because I realise that him running with me is probably a drag for almost the whole time because I am just so un-athletic. But I just didn’t like how he ran off to show me how fast he was without telling me, and didn’t come back.
I’m a girl, I have weak girl feelings that need to be validated sometimes…
so, I’m not so much, UGHHHHH, FI! > : /
and more, oh, FI! : |