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    FiFiKib    December 1, 2012  

    Hi Bees,

    I never thought I would be saying this but I think that i may be having some dress regret here. I keep trying to remember how I felt when I tried the dress on but I have still been browsing the bee and online at websites and see sooooo many other dresses that I love in the pictures that I did not get a chance to try on. AHHHHH!

    I know its probably NOT a good idea to go and try on more dresses when I have already put the order in for my current dress.

    Has anyone experienced this? Did you try more dresses on? Did you regret it? Did you find a dress you loved MORE than the first dress you picked? Anyone have ANY advice?

    I don't know if I can just put it out of my head. I am really hoping it is just a phase. I don't want to have to go through the trouble of trying to sell the dress I ordered already if I end up finding another one. But I also want to make sure I have the perfect dress for me on my wedding day.

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    Ms.GoodEarth    May 25, 2013   Los Angeles, CA

    I'm having feelings like this too a bit.  I already bought my dress and I really like it.  I'm thinking I'll LOVE it again after it fits perfectly.  What don't you like about your dress?  Maybe go try it on again to fall back in love with it?  Just know that there will ALWAYS be more dresses to try on!  

    Do you have any pictures of your in your dress?

     
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    asscherlover    August 17, 2013  

    @FiFiKib:  Post a pic of the dress you have so we can tell you how beautiful it is :)

     
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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    Back away from the computer and put up your left hand and repeat after me " I love my dress, I fell in love with my dress because it was the dress for me.  I vow to not cheat on my dress and I vow that I shalt not look desiringly at anothers dress, This is my solemn vow."

     
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    Ms.GoodEarth    May 25, 2013   Los Angeles, CA

    @tksjewelry:  Love this.  This is similar to what I do everytime I'm having dress regret :)

     
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    FiFiKib    December 1, 2012  

    Here is the dress: It is an allure c170Uh Oh... :  wedding DSC02546 2 2

    I remember loving it when I tried it on but the thing is that its different then what I was actually searching for in the beginning of my dress search. I am just second guessing whether I want so much sparkle and business going on in the dress.

    When I first started searching I wanted lace or tulle (or both) mermaid/trumpet/fit and flare or ballgown, not too much sparkle.

    I just don't want to look too disneyish and I want to wear the dress and not have the dress wear me.

    I did make the decision to buy the dress on kind of a spur of the moment (I got a discount only available THAT DAY). I was getting frustrated with my search as well because I had been to Soooooo many places and tried on a lot of gowns. Plus, I was by myself- no one to give me feedback.

    Plus I feel like maybe my chest may be a little too small for this dress.

    Sorry for all the "plus" and "and"s lol

     
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    FiFiKib    December 1, 2012  

    @tksjewelry:  Maybe I should try that before anything!! haha I am really hoping that I feel this way just because I'm grouchy today.

     
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    kaylee26    January 1, 2014  

    It's beautiful!!

     
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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    @FiFiKib:  That dress is AMAZING!!! Look at the curves you have in it and it just looks so glamorous.  So freaking pretty!  Yup, chalk it up to a bad mood or a bad day, but that is sooo not a bad dress.  Remember Left Hand UP.....

     
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    Ms.GoodEarth    May 25, 2013   Los Angeles, CA

    You look absolutely stunning in this dress!  I agree with @tksjewelry, must just be a bad day!  

     
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    sommertime    August 10, 2013   San Francisco Bay Area

    That dress is SO amazing on you!! Don't have dress regret! It's GORGEOUS! And you are going to look absolutely stunning on your wedding day! :) 

     
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    miss snickerdoodle    June 22, 2012  

    Your dress is gorgeous!  It's easy to have dress regret with all the beautiful dresses posted on the bee.  I've questioned my choice often enough, but every time I try it on, I fall in love with it again.  So try not to worry too much - I'm sure you will love it again once it comes in!

     
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    SapphireSun    July 9, 2010   Vancouver, BC

    It's so normal to have dress regret.  Just try to remember what you loved about it when you first met :)

     
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    FiFiKib    December 1, 2012  

    Thanks ladies! I am going to wait for the dress to come in and retry it on and hopefully rekindle my love for it!

     

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