Uh oh, we just made a HUGE mistake…

posted 3 years ago in Legal
Post # 3
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772 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

OMG!! what is your plan?? Is there any way to insure that you get them sooner?

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@krex:  you’ll have to make the time to get copies from your home town as far as i’m aware…..sucks but woops!!!! why did you mail in passport info and birth cert? you couldnt go to a post office? rush orders usually have places you can go in certain towns to do it in person.

Post # 5
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4367 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Order copies and have them expedited. Problem solved.

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

@BellaDee:  The post office will mail in the birth certificate, too. I did my paperwork through the post office and they mailed my birth certificate + passport info in to be verified by the government. The government issues the passport, not the post office. They just handle the transaction.

I’d be ordering copies of my birth certificate ASAP.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’d have someone from your hometowns express mail you copies of both birth certificates. Also, do you need the passports before the wedding?

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@krex:  Oh jeez, you must be spazzing, I’m sorry! Do either of your parents still live in your home towns? I think some places will let an immediate family member also order a new one. Google just turned this up, too: https://www.vitalchek.com/birth-certificates – it looks like you might be able to do something online, but I’m not sure how long it would take to get back to you.

I really hope you figure something out soon! And I’m now making a mental note to send our passport applications out 6 months before the wedding, so at least your story helped someone :-/

Post # 11
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375 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

You can order a copy of your birth certificate from the county records office where you were born. Can be done online and then will be mailed to you within a few days. Or try this website that I looked up for you: http://www.health.ny.gov/vital_records/birth.htm. That has the information for NY.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Call your home toend city hall. You can order it over the phone. it cost me 15 dollars and was mailed to me.  You may have to mail them a check with a request form With a photocopy of your id but you can over night that and it will take less than a week to receive it back. 

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@krex:  Try contacting the passport office (not the post office where you dropped off the applications), but the US Department of State (use your lunch break if you have one) at: 

1-877-487-2778

Explain you situation to them.  At the very worst (and I mean the very worst) would you be able to go through with your ceremony and sign the licence afterward.  I’ve heard of that happening when a couple forgets their marriage licence on the day of their wedding (ie. ‘honey I thought you packed the licence.’).  Check out the rules for your state to see if that’s possible.

Post # 15
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

@krex:  I just went through the process of acting like I wanted to order a BC from the place @BotticelliLove:  mentioned.

23.00 for the agency

6.00 processing fee

19.00 for US air mail (3-5 days processing before it’s shipped) or zero dollars for regular mail.

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Do not use a website like vital chex. They charge crazy amounts of money because most people don’t know you can just call your town city hall Yourself and get it. 

Parents can can order it too and mail it to you 

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