(Closed) Ultimatums

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2083 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Yep. If you’re not the bride, you’re just not going to be 100% on top of things. At least that’s something I figured out. I had some issues getting my girls to buy their dresses with enough time to allow for alterations if needed. I did feel like it came down to me getting a tad bit bitchy to get some of them to actually take me seriously and go get it done. But in the end I didn’t really feel too bad about it, because I knew that even though I’ve known those girls forever being super easy going wasn’t giving them the push they needed to realize that it was actually really important. It does suck, but just breathe – post wedding you will let all of this go and you’ll be able to move past any annoyances/drama of the bridal party. I didn’t tell them they weren’t going to be in the wedding though – I just let them know that I was getting really stressed out with the date coming up and that I really needed them to be on top of it so it wouldn’t be another thing I had to worry about.

I didn’t care when the girls got their shoes though, they didn’t have to order them or anything I just had them buy some they wanted. But I could see why they would need them by a certain time if they are long dresses that need altering according to what heels they are wearing and what not.

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