Post # 1
Am I the only one who does not and/or had never masterbated. I have great sex with my husband, and Im a sexual person but I have never masturbated. I think’s a combination of being too inside my own head ( overthinking it) and I’m just awkward, I kind of feel like if I do it Im doing something bad/dirty. (i come form a very open home about eveything and anything, I haven’t had any bad sexual things happen) So I am just wondering if I am the only one
Post # 2
Certainly an exception. But you don’t have to do it. There is no law saying, not masturbating is a big deal.
Post # 3
ment.to.be2013: I masturbate pretty often. But I started when I was young (17ish) before I ever had intercourse so maybe that has something to do with it?
Post # 4
ment.to.be2013: nope. Neither DH or I do. It isn’t because we can’t, I just don’t get that turned on by myself. I was happy to find someone on the same page as me
Post # 5
Weirdly, I didn’t before I got married. DH taught me and enjoys watching (maybe a little tmi, sorry). That’s not too say that sex with him isn’t great. There’s nothing lacking there. I don’t think there has to be something lacking in your sex life to enjoy masturbation. Anyway, nothing wrong with either way of doing things.
Post # 6
I started when I was 13. I have a friend who at the age of 24 still hasn’t and doesn’t plan on doing it, because she just isn’t into it. Nothing wrong with either pathway. Sexual desire is a strange and variable thing.
Post # 7
I started doing things to myself when I was around 7-8 and then it wasnt until I had my very first clitoral orgasm at 13 that I was doing it on a regular basis. Everyone is different and I dont think its weird really… Considering I do it everyday, I cant imagine not doing it. While I dont think its weird, I believe that ”loving yourself” is an important part of ones sexuality and confidence in the bedroom.
I had a friend who NEVER did it before, she found it weird and gross and didnt see herself that way but I told her to really give it a try, so I bought her a vibrator… Lol after a couple days she came to me and said that she couldnt believe what she was missing and that she had the best sex ever with her boyfriend a few hours after she tried the vibrator for the first time.
Its not for everyone but I definitely think everyone should try it. I think a Vibrator is best way to go for people who are shy or weirded out about touching their own body/masturbating.
Post # 8
Nope, does nothing for me.
Post # 9
Oh gosh, I loveeee masterbation. Like, it is the best thing ever as I am guaranteed the big O every single time. MMm…
And, since I am far from promiscuous (currently single again), I have no choice. Masterbation is the only way I knew what I really enjoyed.
Post # 10
ment.to.be2013: I do, I started really young- like 8? I never had anything bad happen to me sexually either. I’ve just always been a really sexual person- nothing wrong with not doing it if it’s just not your thing though!
Post # 11
Now, I do find it strange that people start so young (7 and 8)? The first time I masterbated was when I was an adult (around 18/19 years old).
Post # 12
Butterfly6: nothing really strange here – children start exploring their bodies much more earlier than 8 years.
Post # 13
+1 I was four when I started playing with myself.
Masturbation isn’t for everyone.
Post # 14
I started when I was 11 or 12, I’ve just always been an extremely sexual person. But it’s not for everyone.