Ummm am I the only one????

posted 2 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Certainly an exception. But you don’t have to do it. There is no law saying, not masturbating is a big deal. 

Post # 3
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Blushing bee

ment.to.be2013:  I masturbate pretty often. But I started when I was young (17ish) before I ever had intercourse so maybe that has something to do with it? 

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

ment.to.be2013:  nope. Neither DH or I do. It isn’t because we can’t, I just don’t get that turned on by myself. I was happy to find someone on the same page as me 

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June, 2014

Weirdly, I didn’t before I got married. DH taught me and enjoys watching (maybe a little tmi, sorry). That’s not too say that sex with him isn’t great. There’s nothing lacking there. I don’t think there has to be something lacking in your sex life to enjoy masturbation. Anyway, nothing wrong with either way of doing things. 

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I started when I was 13. I have a friend who at the age of 24 still hasn’t and doesn’t plan on doing it, because she just isn’t into it. Nothing wrong with either pathway. Sexual desire is a strange and variable thing. 

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

I started doing things to myself when I was around 7-8 and then it wasnt until I had my very first clitoral orgasm at 13 that I was doing it on a regular basis. Everyone is different and I dont think its weird really… Considering I do it everyday, I cant imagine not doing it. While I dont think its weird, I believe that ”loving yourself” is an important part of ones sexuality and confidence in the bedroom.

I had a friend who NEVER did it before, she found it weird and gross and didnt see herself that way but I told her to really give it a try, so I bought her a vibrator… Lol after a couple days she came to me and said that she couldnt believe what she was missing and that she had the best sex ever with her boyfriend a few hours after she tried the vibrator for the first time. 

Its not for everyone but I definitely think everyone should try it. I think a Vibrator is best way to go for people who are shy or weirded out about touching their own body/masturbating.

Post # 8
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Helper bee

Nope, does nothing for me. 

Post # 9
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Sugar bee

Oh gosh, I loveeee masterbation. Like, it is the best thing ever as I am guaranteed the big O every single time. MMm…

And, since I am far from promiscuous (currently single again), I have no choice.  Masterbation is the only way I knew what I really enjoyed.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee

ment.to.be2013:  I do, I started really young- like 8? I never had anything bad happen to me sexually either. I’ve just always been a really sexual person- nothing wrong with not doing it if it’s just not your thing though! 

Post # 11
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Sugar bee

Now, I do find it strange that people start so young (7 and 8)? The first time I masterbated was when I was an adult (around 18/19 years old).

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Butterfly6:  nothing really strange here – children start exploring their bodies much more earlier than 8 years.

 

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

zamorski:  

+1 I was four when I started playing with myself.

Masturbation isn’t for everyone. 

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I started when I was 11 or 12, I’ve just always been an extremely sexual person. But it’s not for everyone.

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