(Closed) un -bridesmaid 2 GREAT bridesmaids

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2651 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

I think you should tell the family to stuff it. Have them be bms for the ceremony but don’t require them to go to all of the receptions 

Post # 4
424 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@imalittlebirdie:  Agreed.

I also can’t believe that you’re having 4 receptions.  They’re not all going to be formal and in your wedding dress, are they?

Post # 5
63 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

I think definitely keep them on as bridesmaids! What are your reasons for not wanting them anymore? They don’t need to wear matching dresses for every reception or anything, but you obviously chose them for a reason so I think they should still get to stand beside you at the ceremony. 

Post # 6
363 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I wouldn’t reassign as ‘wedding helpers’ – sounds like you just want them to do stuff for you with that title and if someone offered me a ‘wedding helper’ job I would probably scoff, then decline in all honesty. 

It’s your wedding – you can have as many bridesmaids as you like. They can still be in the ceremony can’t they as this is the main part of the day? 

Post # 7
5 posts

4 receptions…. wow!  Many people have divorced parents but the wedding is about YOU and YOUR fiance.  The parents can suck it up for one day.  Make sure you are letting the parents know what you want and don’t let them sway you, it is your day after all.

Post # 8
1512 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Totally off topic, but how do four receptions work? I’ve never heard of such a thing.

Post # 9
36 posts

It’s about your marriage, not anyone else’s opinions. Do what you feel is right.

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