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posted 4 years ago in Emotional
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I do think that you need to let your FI deal with the awful parts of this, it’s his job.

But at the end of the day perhaps you need to start pulling away from FMIL until she pulls her socks up. You have leverage against her – your presence. Tell her point blank that until she calls up the Stepmom’s Ex and tells him that he is not invited AND shuts her mouth about Stepmom, you will not be going to lunch or coming over or spending any time with her. And that’s BOTH of you, you and your FI.

If she doesn’t do any of this then I guess you’ll just see her at the wedding. 

 

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