- 3 years ago
- Wedding: Royal Park Hotel
My aunt (my mother’s sister) married a guy a few years ago. She met him online, went down to meet him where he was living with another woman. He left that woman to be with my aunt. My aunt then brought him to live with her. He always seemed really off to us and my Grandfather did not like this guy. He hired a private investigator and we found out that he had been in and out of jail multiple times on different drug charges, skipped out on child support, etc. He also lied about being in the Coast Guard to my aunt. He had never been in the coast guard. After all of that surfaced nothing happened. They got married as if it never happened. He has Aspbergers but I think it’s more than that. He is beyond inappropriate and talks rudely to so many people. My aunt treats him like he’s one of her kids because he “misbehaves” so much.
The Wedding: He fancies himself a photographer so we had to tell him “No pictures, Jacob” as he would totally be someone who would try to take shots during the ceremony. During the reception he was taking pictures and being really rude to people that had drinks in their hands during the shots “PUT YOUR DRINKS DOWN!” To most, it was clear, that he had issues. He kept introducing himself as my cousin. He’s my aunt’s husband….he’s not my cousin. He lies about weird shit like that all time time. He was heavily flirting with the staff and my uncle pulled him aside. THEN when he and my aunt were leaving he interrupts my husband as he’s talking to his own relative from cross-country and said “Yo! Let’s go, Beth is leaving – you have to say goodbye to her.” He’s just a total asshole.
The Funeral – My uncle died last month and he was forbidden to attend the memorial service by my aunt (she was in the hospital recovering from surgery) because she knows he can’t be trusted unless she is with him. Well he came anyway, in jeans, and his camera. Taking pictures of the alter and people and telling everyone about my wedding. People are sobbing and he’s telling everyone about his new car and he’s rolling his eyes. My other aunt took him out to the parking lot and threatened to tell my aunt (his wife) that he came to the memorial service against her wishes. That shut him up and we went home.
I am so angry. I know people with Aspbergers cannot be helped in some cases but I never want to see him again. I’m already planning on skipping out on Christmas because I want nothing to do with him. How can I handle this? I hate him so much