- 8 years ago
- Wedding: June 2011
Okay. So Question I need some help with. well actually it is more like 3 or four questions all wrapped around one question but still. Anyways.
He and I will be under the age of 21 when we get married.. which is fine by us. But his parents (expecially his dad who is inviting a bunch of his buisness friends to our wedding) and my dad all want some sort of bar and drinks to be available for those who are able to drink. The fiance and I have talked it over… and we don’t really care if there is a bar with drinks there or not… now the question is… how do we go about it seeing as we cannot pay for it nor do we really want to use our small budget that we have (and a rather large guest list- over 200!!) on something that neither of us will enjoy.. or at least 10-20 percent of our guests for that matter. So what is the best way do you fellow Bees think we should go about it.
One idea was a cash bar.. but I felt like that was kind of tacky to make others pay for their own drinks.
the other idea was to see if one of the parents want to host it seeing as they wanted it… but I am afraid that whoever hosts it is going to try to make sure the reception is at the place with the lowest beer rate..
Anyone else have any great ideas? I am open to anything. We are in the process of picking a venue and before we do that we need to figure out.. bar or no bar.
Has anyone heard of a non-alcoholic bar? Any ideas on one of those as well would also be amazing!!
🙂 I am excited to hear back on responses!