Uneven wedding party!

posted 2 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Would 1 bridesmaid and 3 groomsman look funny?
    YES-pick 3 bridesmaids and don't worry about hurting anyone's feelings : (3 votes)
    11 %
    YES- make fiancé pick just one groomsman : (0 votes)
    NO--do what you want--it's your wedding day! : (24 votes)
    89 %
  • Post # 2
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    I have an uneven bridal party as does my best friend. Do whatever you guys want. 

    Post # 3
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2014 - Turf Valley

    It won’t look funny.  I’ll have 5 girls and FI will have 3 guys.

    Post # 4
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    1441 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    My fiance is having a best man and I am having no attendants.  Really, just do what you want!

    Post # 5
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    730 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I had an “uneven” bridal party and it was no issue at all.  The size of your wedding party will have zero impact on your marriage , so it’s best not to stress about these sort of details.

    Post # 6
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    My FI has two, I have three, it isn’t a big deal. I didn’t want to make him pick someone else just so the pictures could be matchy matchy. Do whatever you like!

    Post # 7
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    amstudent1:   Do what you want!  I had my MOH, my then FI had a Best Man and two ushers.  It was great!  Since I had a small wedding I figured my close female friends as well as my FSILs would prefer to attend as guests and choose their own attire.  

    Post # 9
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2014

    I have seven girls and five guys, it doesn’t have to be perfect! This is not a debutant ball or anything.

    Post # 10
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    Bumble bee

    I have 4 bridesmaids and FI just has his best man.  The bridesmaid are going to walk down on their own or in pairs depending on what they feel more comfortable with and the best man will be at the alter with FI the whole time so he isn’t just stood on his own feeling nervous

    Post # 11
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    1943 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    Does not matter at all!!!  It will not look funny in the slightest.

    Post # 12
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    308 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    amstudent1:  My best friend had an uneven wedding party. She just had me and our other best friend walk down the asile together. It actually worked because the three of us have been best friends forever and the rest of her party was just family so everyone kind of knew as we were walking and loved it!! I don’t think it would be a problem, espeically if he is only having 3 and you only having 1. Maybe make your sister go down first and then the guys.

    Post # 13
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2013

    we had uneven.  i had 3 girls and my brother on my side,  DH had 5 guys on his side.

    it was no problem.

    Post # 14
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    88 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    One of our groomsmen backed out recently and so we will have an uneven wedding party 4 girls and 3 guys.

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