- 6 years ago
- Wedding: November 1999
Okay so we’re getting down to the nitty gritty here and I just want to tie up some loose ends. Fiance and I are getting an hour of free limo service as part of our wedding package. I know Future Mother-In-Law wants to get a big limo for the whole family so I simply asked my Fiance if she’d be interested in upgrading our free limo (seats 6) to a big one that can fit everybody. His response via text: “Beats me. Call her and ask her yourself.”
This pisses me off for several reasons but the main one is he ALWAYS asks me questions about the tea ceremony we’re having before the wedding (I’m Vietnamese, he’s Caucasian – we’re both pretty clueless about the tea ceremony), but I never respond with “Beats me, go call my mom and ask her yourself.”
I feel that he thinks because he’s paying for certain parts of the wedding that THAT’S his contribution. I’m sorry, but a wedding is much more than just MONEY. It takes time and research (and TEARS of frustration, am I right ladies?). I’m just feeling super stressed and like I’m planning this by myself sometimes.
Sorry for the rant, just felt like this is the place to do it since I’m sure plenty of ladies go through this too. I’m not really looking for any pseudo psychiatrists trying to give me deep insight on my relationship with my Fiance. Besides being a lame-wad about wedding details, he’s really an awesome person and I can’t wait to marry him. We just really want to get to the day and enjoy ourselves.