Post # 1
I have a friend, more of a frenemy, that uninvited me to her wedding. She has never been a good friend and I’ve kept her at arms length. The only time she comes around is when she wants something or is being nosey. She has not treated me well but I went to her wedding shower anyway. She even had a rude comment to say about the gift I got her. I was only ONE of TWO friends that showed up to her shower. I didn’t feel like bringing gifts to the wedding so I had it sent to her house and she already has that. Well, something very personal happend with me and my fiance and I was not able to attend her bachelorette party. Instead of asking if something happend or was wrong, this girl proceeds to send me rude texts and then tells me to not show up at her wedding and that she’d rather waste the money. I did not text her back for a couple days because 1. I was so emotionally drained by everything that happend and 2. I didn’t want to say all the rude things I would have loved to have said! Two days later, I sent a text basically saying that shit pops up that is out of people’s control that’s more important than getting drunk at the bar and it would have been nice if she asked if if something happend instead of being a bitch and just uninviting me to her wedding. But if that’s how she would like to be, I will gladly not show iup. I got a rude text back so I just blocked her. I feel bad that her mother is going to be wasting money on two plates and her fiance is such a nice guy. I hate that I am going to be turned into the bad guy for not showing up and wasting money when she is the reason I’m being uninvited! What would you do? I clearly never want to speak to this witch again so just suck it up and not care what everyone thinks?
Post # 3
Yup I think so. If anyone asks why you didn’t come you can just explain without casting any blame that you were not actually invited to the wedding, so that is why you did not attend.
Post # 4
@SpicyThaiLove: It’s a waste of your life to keep her in it. Let her go. Her poor Fiance. Bitchy girls always end up with the nice guys, just like jerks always try to find the nice girl they can date and control.
Seriously only 2 people came to her shower?! O.o
Post # 5
I wouldn’t go. That is completely uncalled for and it’s her own fault.
Hope everything is ok with you & your fiance!! Don’t let crazies get you down! 😉
Post # 6
Could you contact her mom and let her know you won’t be coming as you’ve been uninvited? Some caterers give you quite a while to turn in your final numbers I think.
Post # 7
Sucks that you can’t take back your wedding gift. What a jerk she turned out to be! Depending on when her wedding is, most caterers want a final number the week beforehand, so she probably will just take you out of the count.
Post # 8
Are you close with her Fiance or their families? If you no longer have contact with this girl will you no longer have contact with their families and friends?
I would no attend the wedding, who cares what others think. More so if those others won’t even ever see you again to begin with. Otherwise, just mention being univited if anyone asks. I highly doubt anyone will ask, for all anyone else will know, you had informed the couple prior to not attending.
Post # 9
So she takes your gifts then proceeds to un-invite you to the wedding? Wow, the nerve. Yeah, just cut your losses and not even bother. You don’t even have to tell anyone specifics if they asked you why you weren’t there. She is toxic and needs to be kicked to the curve.
Post # 10
Ahaha. Things get even better. She sends me texts about how she’s suuuuuch a great friend!! (I don’t even want to get into the countless rude, mean, horrible things she’s done and not just to me. A couple years ago she even assulted her very sweet roomie with her heels while screaming at her for no reason) and that I have my head so far up my fiance’s ass and that she should be more important than him. ahahahha. This chick is certifiably insane! Mind you, when I first met my fiance……..SHE WAS TRYING TO CHEAT ON HERS WITH MY MAN’S FRIEND!! Every time we would go to the bar she was on a mission to cheat on him! Then she’d get mad because no guys would talk to her! I think I was a pretty decent friend for keeping THAT cat in the bag!! She has always been a crazy bitch. This just all takes the cake! I feel so sorry for her and her fiance.