(Closed) Uninvited to wedding?

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1963 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Yup I think so. If anyone asks why you didn’t come you can just explain without casting any blame that you were not actually invited to the wedding, so that is why you did not attend.

Post # 4
1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@SpicyThaiLove:  It’s a waste of your life to keep her in it. Let her go. Her poor Fiance. Bitchy girls always end up with the nice guys, just like jerks always try to find the nice girl they can date and control.

Seriously only 2 people came to her shower?! O.o

Post # 5
369 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I wouldn’t go. That is completely uncalled for and it’s her own fault.

Hope everything is ok with you & your fiance!! Don’t let crazies get you down! 😉

Post # 6
1458 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Could you contact her mom and let her know you won’t be coming as you’ve been uninvited? Some caterers give you quite a while to turn in your final numbers I think.

Post # 7
356 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Sucks that you can’t take back your wedding gift.  What a jerk she turned out to be! Depending on when her wedding is, most caterers want a final number the week beforehand, so she probably will just take you out of the count.

Post # 8
2781 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Are you close with her Fiance or their families? If you no longer have contact with this girl will you no longer have contact with their families and friends? 

I would no attend the wedding, who cares what others think. More so if those others won’t even ever see you again to begin with. Otherwise, just mention being univited if anyone asks. I highly doubt anyone will ask, for all anyone else will know, you had informed the couple prior to not attending.

Post # 9
2693 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

So she takes your gifts then proceeds to un-invite you to the wedding?  Wow, the nerve.  Yeah, just cut your losses and not even bother.  You don’t even have to tell anyone specifics if they asked you why you weren’t there.  She is toxic and needs to be kicked to the curve.

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