uninviting a guest

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 5
7842 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@yellowballoon:  I think all you can do is uninvite the mother and what happens, happens. TBH I think there’s a good chance the daughter wouldn’t attend if it means staying with her mother; but from what you say that is preferable to the mother attending.

Since the mother is harassing your mother anyway, I don’t see how uninviting her will make it much worse. As for your sister, why doesn’t she just unfriend and/or block this woman?

Post # 7
505 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@yellowballoon:  With this note


“Hi X,


I appreciate all your support throught the years.  However, your recent behavior has become a bit overbearing.  As it stands right now, I wish to have no further contact with you, and do not wish to have you present at any upcoming events, including my wedding.  We can reconnect in 6 months  on X/X/XXXX and see how you are feeling.  Thank you for the time you have contributed to me and thank you for respecting my wishes”

I would Forward your friend and let her know that you are doing all you can, and need the space and still love the both of them.

Post # 9
11287 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@yellowballoon:  i hope that it all works out for you.  has this woman always been so nasty?  or is this new?

Post # 11
893 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I univited a guest that used to be a good friend.

Looking back I really do not know why I was friends with this person to begin with…….

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