Post # 1
So I made the mistake of inviting several coworkers when I made the original guest list, and in the 6 months since the list was made things have changed, 2 of the people I invited I really don’t like AT ALL anymore. I don’t think they like me either..problem is,,they already got save the dates..
mind you one of the people have had several events since and I have not been invited
Is it tacky for them to misteriously not get an invitation?
Post # 3
Sorry, but yeah, kind of. If they already received a STD, then you have pretty much committed to inviting them. Maybe they just won’t attend the wedding, if they’re not that close friends with you. But you DO have to still invite them.
Post # 4
you can’t uninvite people. if they don’t like you, they probably won’t come.
Post # 5
Im a firm believer in doing everything in my power to make my working environment as pleasant to work in as possible…not inviting them may cause some hostility at work and the more you can avoid that the better!
Post # 6
I don’t know…I wouldn’t send them an invite. If they ask you about it, you could just use the old “got lost in the mail” excuse. But since you don’t like each other, they probably won’t ask. Forget about it.
Post # 7
Yeah its probably not a big deal. If it was something small like a disagreement I probably wouldn’t care. Its just hard to invite someone to be a part of the most important day of your life ( if they come or not) when they are constantly being rude to you