Unique Situation About My Reputation and I Need Advice Please

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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8905 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

@ArizonaGirl:  whaaa?  That is so so random and bizarre.  I would probably play dumb and be like, “Did you invite me?  The invitation must have gotten lost in the mail.  Why didn’t you follow up with me?” and she what she has to say about it.

I would try not to make a big deal about it to your friends, but just be like “I have no idea what she’s talking about.  I never got an invite and obviously never RSVPed.  Weird right?!”

Post # 5
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4576 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@ArizonaGirl:  You move past this sorority-bullshit and ignore them.

Post # 6
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279 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I would approach it like an apology. Something along the lines of “hey, I’ve been hearing that you tried to contact me about your wedding and thought I was coming, but I never got the message, I’m so sorry!” and see what she says. 

Post # 8
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2913 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

@lolot:  +1. She sounds insane.

Post # 9
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4576 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@ArizonaGirl:  They arent going to ask you, I promise.

They’ll either:

a) not care

b) have forgotten about it

c) think it’s too awkward to bring up.

Do not give this girl, or this situation, room for rent in your head. I was in a sorority too, and this is just another case of some asshole manipulating people.

Post # 10
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3635 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@ArizonaGirl:  Post a message on her wall for everyone to see.  “Hey girl!  Saw you got married this weekend, CONGRATS!!  Totally understand you couldn’t invite us, we’ll have to catch up over drinks one of these days!”

Post # 11
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2973 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@badabing88:  This. 

Are you kidding? @ArizonaGirl:  You never got the invitation & you clearly were not a priority. Not much you can do about that.

 

Post # 15
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4576 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@ArizonaGirl:  

“But like WHY throw me under the bus like that? Why not just go on with your guest list and place cards as you previously intended? I can not connect the dots.”

Allow me:

Because she’s a bitch, and her head is still in sorority-mode.

Post # 16
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3570 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Are you sure you didn’t get a FB message?  I would just ignore all this.  It’s so petty and ridiculous.  I have a hard time believing that she did this to “set you up.” Even if she did invite you three days before and you flaked out – its rude to invite someone last minute to a wedding.  

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