Unique situation – Is Trash the Dress okay?

posted 3 years ago in Photos/Videos
  • poll: Should I ask my bridesmaids to do a trash the dress session with me?
    Yes : (8 votes)
    89 %
    No : (1 votes)
    11 %
  • Post # 3
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    2179 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2024

    I’d say if they are OK trashing dresses they paid for then go for it but don’t be offended or upset if they say no!

    Post # 4
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    3889 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I’d say no on this. It feels like you’re trying to extend your wedding events even further, which is fine if it is only your time you’re taking up, but not fine to take up everyone else’s time. It’s also really not cool to volunteer your friend’s husband to take the photos— let him make the offer (and don’t try to lead him to it) or pay him. 

    Maybe it would be better to host your girls for a spa day and bring a decent camera and take some impromptu shots. You would be able to get everyone together and enjoy each other, but instead of the event being them doing (another) something for you, you’re doing something for them.

     

    Post # 5
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    6964 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2015

    @Jeanne6629:  Awww. I’m so sad for you! I would HATE to miss pics with my BMs. I say do it!

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