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Hi Hive,

I wanted to share with you a unique way I was able to include friends minus the MOH/BM drama.

I didn't want a wedding party because of the following:

1. My fiance's been married before

2. I didn't know how to navigate feelings with the choosing of MOH and BMs

3. Being a BM is expensive and my close friends are strapped for cash 

4. I don't give a crap what color dresses people wear and I didn't want to deal with it

5. Oh many the Hive is just full of BM drama stories - I want to still love my friends post wedding ;)

However, I really wanted to include my best friends in a way that made them feel special.  My fiance felt the same way, so we asked 2 of them to Officiate, and a bunch of others to guide us through various wedding traditions. For example our Hindu friends are walking us through the sapta padi, Muslim friend are doing a Muslim reading, Christian, Jewish, etc...

Well anyway just an idea to throw out for anyone else who might want an alternative to a wedding party.

What a nice idea....love the multi cultural effect you get with including everyone!