Post # 1
My fiances mother passed away a few years ago. Does anyone have any alternatives to the lighting of the unity candles? Would it be weird to have his dad to it? I’m sure someone else has run into this situation, just wondering what your solutions were? Thanks all!!!
Post # 3
Do you mean have his DAd light his candle instead of his Mom? I don’t think that would be weird at all!
As for alternatives we are considering a sand or rose ceremony.
Post # 4
yes, having his dad light the candle. We had considered that. But it is a catholic ceremony and his sister thinks that the candles may be required.
Post # 5
My Fiance was an usher at a friends wedding and he lit the candle. I’m not sure why though.