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Unity Candle Question

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    Candi1024    05/24/2008   Hunlock Creek, PA

    When do the mothers light the unity candles.  Before the bride walks down the aisle or after.  And I'm sure I could do it anyway I want, just looking for the customary way.

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    Candi

     

     
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    jkl216    May 2009   Pittsburgh

    I've always seen this done before the bride walks down the aisle---usually when each mother is escorted in, they go up and light their candle.  At one wedding, the MOG stood in the front and waited for the MOB and they both walked up together and lit them at the same time.

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    bonniebelle101    March 15, 2008   Charlotte, NC

    I've seen it done when the mothers are seated which is usually after the grandmothers and right before the wedding party. Keep in mind if you do it this way that you need to allow a little extra music. You don't want the mothers up at the front worrying about trying to light the candles AND worrying about the music running out. Hope this helps.

     
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    jma19      

    Our pastor said their timeline is as follows - based on our wedding party:

    Grandmothers

    Parents of the groom

    Mother of the bride

    Mothers light unity candle tapers

    groomsmen/groom come in

    bridesmaids

    bride 

     
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    Candi1024    05/24/2008   Hunlock Creek, PA

    Thanks guys!

    No worry about the music, I have an organist that will time it accordingly.

     

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