- 6 years ago
- Wedding: November 2011
I have got to be the most organized, indifferent bride ever!! FI are paying for everything ourselves, and he does not want to spend a lot of money at all…. not for one day. FI, and I, I suppose, want to throw more money at the honeymoon than on the wedding. We’re not the types of people to want to put on a big show about everyone. We’re having a very simple ceremony at a tiny venue, a cake and punch reception at the same venue. (I haven’t even seen the inside of the venue! FMIL attends the venue for church; FI has at least seen the inside, but doesn’t remember anything about it, go figure.) I have my dress, my bouquet. I did not do save the dates, we did not send invitations. I have no guest list at all. None of my family will probably come, and FI says that he’s just going to verbally tell a few people in his family when/where/what time we’re getting married, and ask them to spread the word, and then whoever wants to come can come, and whoever doesn’t want to doesn’t have to. FMIL is paying for the cake (which I do have picked out). I have my dress, my bouquet, no veil, no shoes. We’re saying our own vows…haven’t written them yet. We’ve made a list (that I have SOMEWHERE) of songs that we’d like to use… but we’re probably not dancing or anything. I have no idea what time the wedding is even starting. We have an officiant, and I’ve ordered Fi’s custom wedding band… that’s about it. That’s all the wedding planning I can really account for. Oh, I have centerpiece ideas….but haven’t started putting it all together yet…
and 51 days until my wedding.
Am I the worst bride ever?!?!!?