- 6 years ago
- Wedding: January 2012
I have 5 BM, including 2 MOH. Most of them have been supportive and have not caused too many issues. I have not asked anyone to do anything other than come to my dress shopping. I have this one BM, and she has caused issues the ENTIRE TIME. First she didn’t like the first BM dress, then she didn’t like my FI, then she complained about going to my dress shopping, then she complained about getting off of work for my bridal shower (she takes off every other weekend to vaca), then she complained about going to my bachlorette party, then she complained about the shoes I like (I want a simple black heel, I am having a winter wedding and they’re all wearing black dresses and I want it to look elegant), THEN she told me that she did not like my wedding dress that she only said she liked it at the store because everyone else said they liked it. I know that everyone else has a lot going on in their lives too, and i’m not asking for everyone to drop everything, but there has not been one thing that she has not complained about. After she complained about buying the BM dress, then bought it in the wrong size because she didn’t get it in time, and then broke the zipper, told me I needed to find her a dress in her size, and then finally got the right dress is now giving me grief about the shoes. I am not asking for a 3 inch heel. I just want something without straps and a wedge heel (which is exactly what she wants). I don’t know what to do. She has always been the friend that makes everything about her, and if she’s not happy, then she makes sure you’re aware of it. I asked her before if she was sure she wanted to be in my wedding, and she said yes. But I am too afraid to even ask her anything because whenever I say something she always has something negative to say about it. Sorry this is a bit aggressive, I just don’t know what to do or how to talk to her! Now the issue is on the shoes… I know that they are not a big deal, its just the principle that every time I say something, she challenges me. HELP!