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posted 4 months ago in Pregnancy
  • poll: Are you going to have a registry for your baby shower?
    Yes, of course, it makes it easier on the guests and I'll get things I need! : (22 votes)
    88 %
    No, if people want to bring a gift they can decide what and where to buy it! : (1 votes)
    4 %
    I'm not having a shower - or if I do it will be a suprise! : (2 votes)
    8 %
    Other - please explain : (0 votes)
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    mrsjets    May 11, 2011   Canada

    Hey ladies!

    So I'm torn on if I should register for the baby shower my 2 best friends and sister are throwing for me in April. I know about it because I had requested no bridal shower when DH and I were married because we had a destination wedding and I felt weird about it...but they suprised me with one anyways! It was a fun time but I hate that suprise feeling and told them that if/when I get pregnant I dont want it to be a suprise.

    I'm acutally pretty excited about this shower because it's my first and I have nothing for a baby besides the crib and bed set, change table and dresser. I know the guest list would only include the people I love the most and probably consist of 20-25 people so is it important to register? I've always felt a registry is kind of expectant but at the same time I dont want 3 bath inserts.

    What are your thoughts?

     
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    HisIrishPrincess    March 23, 2012  

    I think it helps the people c oming to the shower out.  A few of them could go in on a car seat.  If you don't register you could wind up with 10,000 receiving blankets in different colors, cause they are always soft and cute!

     
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    foodnerd81    October 10, 2010  

    I think it's helpful to your guests-- people really want to get you what you need, especially when you have a little baby on the way. For a baby shower especially, I don't think people feel like they NEED to stick to the registry, either-- some will get you adorable outfits or blankets or whatever, that you can have lots of, but you really only want one carseat, pack and play, etc. Or say you picked out your stroller-- even if people don't want to buy the expensive stroller, they would know which accessories you need with it (cover, cup holder, whatever). I'm very pro registry. 

    Also, if a lot of your friends don't have kids, they will have no idea what you need so will appreciate the guidance.

     
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    Juliepants    June 2, 2012   Ontario

    I've been to a BUNCH of baby showers and every single one of them included a registry.  I think you should do it!

     
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    regberadaisy    August 14, 2010  

    @mrsjets:  

    Absolutely. I think if you didn't have a registry you have a much higher chance of getting three bath inserts! A registry will help eliminate some of that. And help to ensure you get things you need and hopefully less clothes!

     
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    Mrs. Spring    May 10, 2009   California

    I didn't have a shower with my first baby, but I still registered.  I think it's a handy way to keep a list of everything you need, and most registries will send you a completion coupon to use before your due date!  I say register; there are a few benefits beyond just the baby shower aspect that will come in handy.

     
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    hisgoosiegirl    June 18, 2011  

    as a childless (so far) person with friends/family recently having showers.....I really appreciate it. I want to know that I'm getting you something you want AND need. And I don't want to just give gift cards which you then have to find time to go out use (although I love them for weddings!). So I'm a big fan!

     
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    plantains    July 17, 2011   Live in NY, wedding in CT

    You should definitely register even if yu don't use it for your shower. Anytime I find out that friends are expecting, I always look them up on BBB or BRU to see if they are registered and usually get them something from that whether they are having a shower or not.

     
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    Mrs. Bonnie Blue    January 29, 2011  

    I'm registering. I know that I will have a work shower and at least 2 other showers. It will help people out to know what I would like.

     
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    chasesgirl    December 30, 2011   East Texas

    As another no baby yet person, please do!! The baby aisle is insane and there are so many different options for things, letting people know which you prefer is really helpful.

     
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    regberadaisy    August 14, 2010  

    @plantains:  

    Ditto. My friend who lives out in Cali didn't have a shower but I looked her up and sent her a gift!

     
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    Katielee    January 7, 2012   Kannapolis, NC

    I think you should register. They help your friends and family know what you need and what others have gotten you. If not you might end up with 20 bath towels or something crazy like that. And congrats on your sweet little bundle to be(e)!!

     

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