Post # 1
I wasn’t sure how to word the title, but here is my example.
1.) I am rather short (5’1") and am self-conscious about it sometimes because I feel like it causes people to misjudge my age (I’ve been the same height since age 12, so I understand where they’re coming from if they do). But my FI loves that I am so short and frequently remarks on how sexy he thinks it is. I wouldn’t be surprised if he wants me to wear flats for our wedding so I’ll still be 8 inches shorter than he is! (I won’t, though…heels with the wedding dress are a must.)
2.) My FI loves my tattoos. All of them are small and very meaningful to me. (No tramp stamp, nothing overly common or cliche) My previous bf, who I was with when I got my first one, hated that I was getting it and refused to look at it "until he absolutely had to." But again, my FI loves them on me. He would never get one himself, but he was completely supportive of the ones I’ve gotten since we’ve been together, and of the possibility that there will be another one or two. It means so much to me that he not only accepts this about me, but understands why I’ve done it, and likes it.
So…what unusual qualities of yours does your FI appreciate in a way that others do not?
Post # 3
I have this weird thing where I smile everytime he kisses me on the cheek. (and ONLY the cheek…) I don’t know what it is but its like a reflex; so weird! He absloutely loves it. He’ll randomly kiss me on the cheek, even when i’m barely awake, and EVERYTIME I smile. He thinks its the cutest thing.
Post # 4
I can raise my eyebrows one at a time and it makes him laugh like crazy. He’s a weirdo 🙂
Post # 5
My FI loves my pet peeves. He thinks it’s cute what I get annoyed by (people blocking aisles, saying "aks" and not "ask," and dumb people on tv). He loves to see me get worked up, which I guess is good. Cuz then he puts me in a better mood!
Post # 6
MightySapphire, that’s cute!
And I hate "aks," too.
Post # 7
- Wedding: March 2005 - Westside Loft, New York
this is a tough one because i’m so crazy.
Post # 8
My guy (not an FI or hubby) loves how accident prone I am! I always run into things or somehow otherwise get hurt, and he just smiles and shakes his head. He also loves how ADD & OCD I am – always zoning out in la-la land and cleaning obsessively!
Post # 9
I like that my wife is so passionate about so many things… and that she likes to help people. Also, that she likes to blog. 🙂
Post # 10
- Wedding: September 2009 - City Hall
I think he likes my road rage (I call people terrible, profane, obscene names when I’m driving ). Also that I know a lot about computers (though I don’t think I know nearly as much as he does). I also think he likes how I enjoy cooking and tidying and organizing things… though it makes him feel bad that I often do all these things before he can have a chance to help!
Post # 11
My boyfriend loves it when I do this stupid baby voice. Sometimes when I talk to him, it comes out before I can stop it. But for one reason or another, he just absolutely adores it.
He loves the fact that I am such an animal lover. We used to have several hamsters but sadly they all passed away. When they did, I cry myself to sleep for at least a few days. He loves that I am so compassionate, even to small animals that others normally would not be.
Post # 12
He says that he likes that despite the fact that I’m 11 years older than him, mentally I seem younger than him. He likes the way I dress (I don’t know why!) . He likes that I’m as weird as he is. Hey, wait a minute… I don’t know how I feel about that one!