(Closed) unwelcome guest

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Don’t give him a plus one.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

You can talk to him about it, but you’re likely to hurt his feelings.  If you give guests a random plus one, technically they’re allowed to bring whomever they choose.  Don’t invite him with a guest, or invite him with one, and it probably won’t be near as bad as you’re dreading.  You’ll be so wrapped up with yourself and your FI that day, you won’t even notice her.

Post # 6
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Busy bee

I think that you should talk to him about it… or even suggest that you have a friend that you know he’ll love and set him up to meet one of your other friends at the wedding.  (If you set him up with a great girl, he’s not going to miss what’s her name!  It might sound corny, but the singles you set up might have a fun time! 

Post # 7
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I am in the process of becoming a wedding planner and accourding to the books I have on etiqutte is to never add the words “and guest” to an invite. Always list the guests name. That way if you were to invite Jane Doe and her boyfriend they know exactly who is invited. When you say “and guest” that gives the invitee the option to bring who ever they want.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I think yo should talk to him about it. Maybe he isn’t aware of how you and your fiance feel about her..only way for him to know is for you all to speak up.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Pregnant hookers?  Wow, okay, I revise my answer.  Definitely have your FI explain to him why she isn’t invited!

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