Update and still need help- MOH dropped out of wedding.

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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63 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

If she dropped out of your wedding over a guy, who is to say she wouldn’t drop out again closer to the wedding? I say find a new MOH, and don’t be bothered with their drama. This is your wedding, you don’t want those negative memories associated with it. 

Post # 4
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3935 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@Jw1724:   Your former MOH’s BF seems to be isolating her – a classic technique for abusers.  I am so sorry for her.  

While I understand your FI does not wanting to meet him, or have them at the wedding,  I hope you can somehow stay in touch with her to be there when she needs you.  Sooner or later, she may truly need help to get away from her BF.    

Post # 7
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8018 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

@Jw1724:  she let you know youre not friends anymore so NO she is not invited to the wedding, much less your MOH.

I say just tell her thanks but no thanks and be done with the drama. 

Post # 9
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1177 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Jw1724:  Idk if you are religious, but I always take these moments in life as God exposing someone so I don’t put my faith in them at the wrong moment. I had a falling out with my ex-best friend back when I was 21. Now that I am 24, getting married, I’m SO thankful that she is not in my life. She would have completely flaked on me during so many moments in the last 3 years. I would say goodbye! 

Post # 10
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852 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Definitely do not have this girl in your wedding party…….

As for being a guest…. i would wait closer to the date of the wedding to invite her…..

Post # 14
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1259 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I wouldn’t let her back in. How insulting that she treated you that way. Hopefully her and her bf don’t last and you two can rekindle later on down the road. But for now, I would leave her alone.

Post # 16
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1259 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@Jw1724:  No, I totally understand. Maybe give it sometime. I think she definately needs to get away from bf first.

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