Post # 1
I’m going to be doing a quick update and may or may not be back on this site.
It’s been a very bumpy road since I last posted here.
The wedding was called off. The ex-bride and groom went their separate ways. Put up their house for sale, divided household belongings and all that stuff. I’m not sure on all the details that have happened with them because I don’t think it’s my business and I don’t want to know.
What I have been dealing with is something of a monster. After the wedding was called off- I was bombarded with FB messages. I read a couple of them, but they were all the same. I can only guess that it was coming from the bride’s friends and they were calling me a homewrecker, a slut, an eff face. Everything nasty. After the first 2 or 3 I stopped reading and just deleted them. When the same people kept writing me I moved to blocking them. The messages still continued from people I didn’t know (I guess the bride has a lot of friends), I deactivated my FB account.
I started getting texts and voicemails from numbers I didn’t know. Same thing- very hurtful words. I went to the police and logged a complaint- I saved everything I could in the hopes of getting a restraining order or SOMETHING to stop this. I changed my number.
My house has been egged twice, threatening letters left on my front door and a dead bird left in the mailbox. Again- I contacted the police and there is a record of what has happened. I am looking to move and have viewed some houses in a different town- as staying in the same one seems impossible at the moment.
I am exhausted from all of this and jump whenever my phone rings and get stressed when I go home, I’m worried about what will be waiting for me! I freeze when someone rings my doorbell and don’t answer unless I know someone is coming over.
My family is being very supportive and doing everything they can to make me feel better and safer.
As of right now- I don’t see an end to this and I’m a big gigantic mess.
Thank you Bees for listening
Post # 2
I’m confused…I tried to look for a post in your profile regarding this in the past , but I don’t see one, so I don’t know the original story. Could you post a link to it?
Post # 3
I’m confused. Did they split up because you wouldn’t throw the girl you don’t know a bridal shower? Why do her friends care about you and your role so much?
Post # 4
loneranger13: Oh my God. I remember your post (the demanding young bride who when you said no began throwing a hissy fit and things escalated). I can’t believe you’ve been dealing with this shit. I don’t even have any words or advice because I can’t imagine someone reacting to someone simply stating they won’t/can’t host your bridal shower (you didn’t know her!!) this way. I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through this.
Post # 5
- Wedding: April 2013 - Valparaiso, IN
Why would they be calling you a home wrecker? I remember your first post, but this one is confusing. I’m sorry for the way you’re being treated though. Some people just need to learn to grow up.
Post # 6
Yeah, a link to the original post would be helpful. I’m very confused.
Post # 7
Ryansgirl: OldMrsMcDonald: http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/asked-to-throw-bridal-shower-dont-know-bride/#axzz394gJm8yD
I had to look it up. Apparently when she told the bride she couldn’t host the shower the bride flipped out and started spreading lies about how OP told her to fuck off and what not. The groom got pissed at OP and when OP showed him the text conversations, he flipped out on the bride. Bride then proceeded to tell OP she ruined her life, blah blah blah. Sounds like the bride is a little immature and so are her friends.
loneranger13: I’m so sorry this is happening to you. That girl is fucking nuts! Can you prove that it’s her and her friends that are harrassing you? If so, press charges, get restraining orders, do what you have to do to feel safe. You don’t need to move because some immature little brats are being petty.
Post # 8
- Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA
WHAT! This girl is freaking insane and so are her friends and family. I’m so sorry this is happening to you! I know it sucks now, but this too will pass. And I guarantee everyone knows how fucking nutso these people are. Keep your head up girl! And I agree with PP, I’d show those messages and voicemails to the cops. Good luck xoxox
Post # 9
IzzyBear: Thanks for posting! I’ll read it now 🙂
Post # 10
Can you press charges? This childish little brat is mentally unhinged. I fear for your safety.
Post # 11
Oh my god, I remember the original post. I cannot believe it has blown up this big. I am so, so sorry.
Post # 12
loneranger13: I just read your original thread, is that for real?? Because it’s so UNreal! Wow!!! I’d say she’s got major psychiatric issues and your brother’s friend dodged a major bullet. As for you, I’d try not to react to all the stuff, that’s what they want, and hopefully it will go away after her equally nutty family members get over it. That is just the strangest thing ever. Sorry you are having to deal with it.
Post # 13
I’d be getting cameras and recording devices to show the police and have them arrested. Can they pay a “visit” to the ex bride to have a talk with her?
I agree, press charges, file a restraining order for ANYONE doing it on her behalf coming down on her.
Post # 14
loneranger13: Okay just read the original thread. O.M.G….that girl is something else. I’m so sorry that you’ve been targeted, for absolutely NO reason. I’m glad you have a supportive family, and I hope you’re able to move to a new town safely…how awful. I just can’t even believe how it escalated.
Have the police done anything yet or are they just gathering evidence?
Post # 15
You said in the other thread your brother was a long-time friend? Can he speak to her parents and explain the situation? They might be the crazy ones egging your house but they might be reasonable and put a stop to this.
But the webcams and police stuff sound good, too.