UPDATE: Asked to throw bridal shower. Don't know bride

posted 2 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m confused…I tried to look for a post in your profile regarding this in the past , but I don’t see one, so I don’t know the original story.  Could you post a link to it?

Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I’m confused.  Did they split up because you wouldn’t throw the girl you don’t know a bridal shower?  Why do her friends care about you and your role so much?

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

loneranger13:  Oh my God. I remember your post (the demanding young bride who when you said no began throwing a hissy fit and things escalated). I can’t believe you’ve been dealing with this shit. I don’t even have any words or advice because I can’t imagine someone reacting to someone simply stating they won’t/can’t host your bridal shower (you didn’t know her!!) this way. I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through this. 

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013 - Valparaiso, IN

Why would they be calling you a home wrecker? I remember your first post, but this one is confusing. I’m sorry for the way you’re being treated though. Some people just need to learn to grow up.

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Yeah, a link to the original post would be helpful. I’m very confused.

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

 

Ryansgirl:  OldMrsMcDonald:  http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/asked-to-throw-bridal-shower-dont-know-bride/#axzz394gJm8yD

I had to look it up. Apparently when she told the bride she couldn’t host the shower the bride flipped out and started spreading lies about how OP told her to fuck off and what not. The groom got pissed at OP and when OP showed him the text conversations, he flipped out on the bride. Bride then proceeded to tell OP she ruined her life, blah blah blah. Sounds like the bride is a little immature and so are her friends.

loneranger13: I’m so sorry this is happening to you. That girl is fucking nuts! Can you prove that it’s her and her friends that are harrassing you? If so, press charges, get restraining orders, do what you have to do to feel safe. You don’t need to move because some immature little brats are being petty. 

Post # 8
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

WHAT!  This girl is freaking insane and so are her friends and family.  I’m so sorry this is happening to you!  I know it sucks now, but this too will pass.  And I guarantee everyone knows how fucking nutso these people are.  Keep your head up girl!  And I agree with PP, I’d show those messages and voicemails to the cops.  Good luck xoxox

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

 

IzzyBear:  Thanks for posting!  I’ll read it now 🙂

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Can you press charges? This childish little brat is mentally unhinged. I fear for your safety.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Oh my god, I remember the original post. I cannot believe it has blown up this big. I am so, so sorry.

 

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

loneranger13:  I just read your original thread, is that for real?? Because it’s so UNreal! Wow!!! I’d say she’s got major psychiatric issues and your brother’s friend dodged a major bullet. As for you, I’d try not to react to all the stuff, that’s what they want, and hopefully it will go away after her equally nutty family members get over it. That is just the strangest thing ever. Sorry you are having to deal with it.

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I’d be getting cameras and recording devices to show the police and have them arrested. Can they pay a “visit” to the ex bride to have a talk with her?

I agree, press charges, file a restraining order for ANYONE doing it on her behalf coming down on her.

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

 

loneranger13:  Okay just read the original thread. O.M.G….that girl is something else.  I’m so sorry that you’ve been targeted, for absolutely NO reason.  I’m glad you have a supportive family, and I hope you’re able to move to a new town safely…how awful.  I just can’t even believe how it escalated.

Have the police done anything yet or are they just gathering evidence? 

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

You said in the other thread your brother was a long-time friend? Can he speak to her parents and explain the situation? They might be the crazy ones egging your house but they might be reasonable and put a stop to this.

But the webcams and police stuff sound good, too.  

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