Update: Bridezilla and Momzilla- long, idk what to do

posted 2 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
3016 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

It sounds like she has dumped you from the wedding. She is a shitty person all around so I would stop worrying about what you need to do, especially since you don’t want to continue the friendship.

You don’t need to do anything. I would probably not go to this wedding, even if invited. I think your FI should go, since he agreed to be in the bridal party. He can go to the rehearsal dinner and stay for just a short time. Ditto for the actual wedding. No need to “get them back” or make things more difficult. It doesn’t sound like your FI really cares much about the groom anyway, so nothing lost there.

Move on. Stop worrying about this person. When you needed her she wasn’t there– indeed she couldn’t just let you worry about your worries, she had to make things worse for you. 

You are young and will make many more– REAL– friends. Sadly, these things happen.

I wish you luck with finding your grandfather a good place to live and with caring for him. You have a lot on your plate so young and are being very responsible. I resepect that so much!


Post # 3
1801 posts
Buzzing bee

First off, prayers for your grandfather!!!!

Second off, she is a total bitch.Anyone who “wants” someone to be in the wedding, should be good enough of a friend to ask how sick family is. At least once.

I’d love to see if she asks you to the dinner, but if she doesnt, you hae your answer on how (whats left of) your friendship stands

Post # 4
7030 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

ksn1219:  Why would it “waste all his paid off time” for your bf to be in their wedding? Doesn’t your bf only need to be there for the rehearsal and the wedding? (There’s also a bachelor party, but if it’s more than a single night out he’s not obliged to attend).

So I advise you and he just go to those two events (the wedding, and the rehearsal dinner if you’re invited), smile and be polite, and otherwise drift away from them.

Post # 6
1801 posts
Buzzing bee

Good luck

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