Update: DH's dad disowned him

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 3
863 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Personally, if I was you, I’d spend quite a bit of time away from them, if at all possible. Let your DH visit them on his own the next couple of times…not to send any sort of ‘I’m not happy with the way you have both acted’ message, but for yourself, to let yourself feel less angry towards them.

Your anger is justified, of course.  It is somewhat of a shame that your DH hasn’t felt able to make it clear to his father how much his actions have hurt both of you.  

Post # 4
2313 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I am glad things are sort of ok now. I do agree that you need to maybe distance yourself from them slightly…especially his SM, she doesn’t sound like the greatest person really, bit of a stirrer.

Post # 5
1527 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Hugs.  I think you have to take with a grain of salt whatever SM says, just be polite and nod.  As said by PP, she is a bit of a pot stirrer.  Whatever she tells you in at best second hand, and if like the wedding picture saga, warped.   Concentrate on your great DH and your wedding.

Post # 6
9137 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

@MrsCE:  Sounds like SM likes to stir the pot.  Make sure to keep that in mind in the future when she tells you things or tries to get you riled up about something.  My FI would call it s#it-stirring because some people just like the drama.  SM probably just wants you to like her more than his mom and a stunt like this just causes you to be distrustful of her.

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