Post # 1
so sat down with my Fiance the other day and talked about how i feel unappreciated. he said that he was sorry about it and that he really does appreciate what i do for him everyday and that he eveb talks to his coworkers about what a wonderful wife i am (eventhough im not his wife apprantly everyone in his company thinks i am lol).
he said that he just feel horrible sometimes because he isnt creative like i am and sometimes doesnt know how to set up somethings for me when he would like to. he said that he would try harder to show me that he really does appreciate what i doand does take me for granted
by this point i was almost in tears because so was he and i felt kinda bad that he was feeling so low but he said he knew it was coming because i was seeming more aggravated and he thought i was going to end things.
so the past couple of days he has been so awesome its like night and day and i feel like he isnt depending on me as much any more. yesturday he was hungry and he just made his own dinner and that felt awesome.
i know its kind of soon to say that everything is fixed, but i see a change in him that i didnt see before. i think it was because he thought i was going to end the relatioship, but i guess i would of if thinks stood the same.
so right now im super glad that i had that talk with him and not i cant continue with the planning (he had a dream about how cool our invatations were ;p) and i know that things will be fine
Post # 3
@FEFE215: Oh, yay! I was thinking about you! So glad you talked to him, because that’s all it takes sometimes, TALK!
Post # 4
Glad things are working out. And just remember, when you hit a rut, please make sure you communicate with your partner!! People are not mind readers, and you found that out first hand. Good for you guys!! 🙂
Post # 5
That is great to hear!
keep up the communication and the good work 🙂
Post # 6
Thats awesome to hear! I’m glad hes making much more effort now 🙂
Post # 7
It’s great to hear that it was probably just all a little miscommunication 🙂 Here’s to hoping that this continues!
Post # 9
@Just_Squeeze: yea i thought that making a comment here and there isnt the way to do it, guess i got a lot of things to learn too, but thanks for the good vibes
Post # 10
aw! Congrats! See, talking it out DOES help.
Post # 11
yes communication is key and thanks for the support. i seriously couldnt have talked to my friends about this because we are at diffrent times in our lives so happy i have the bee 🙂
Post # 12
@FEFE215: I know this is an old thread but I saw it and just felt like I was reading my own words… this post has really made me stop and think and want to approach my Fiance about things rather than go to friends or family who won’t understand. Feelings that I thought were second thoughts I think are just what you have described. Thanks for the post! I would love to know how you two are doing ow….