update-I think it's over, what do I do when he wakes up?

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@TupHoney:  Well I was one who stuck up for you on the original thread.  🙂  I’m so glad that you’re ok and are working things out. 

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Glad you are safe. I would strongly encourage counseling, especially since you both acknowledge you have a lot to work on

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m glad you’re safe and I hope things get better soon.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee

@TupHoney:  glad to hear the update and I’m sorry that other bees were judgemental about your actions!!! I didn’t think you did anything wrong!

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Good luck to you. I believe everyone is flawed, and we just need to choose who/what kind of behavior we are willing to put up with. 

 

If being with him makes you happy then that is all that matters. If you feel in your gut that its not working, then atleast it will be easier to walk away now that the engagement is off. 

 

 

Keep us updated! 🙂

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@TupHoney:  I am so glad to see this! I was worried when you never updated that things may have gotten way worse when he woke up.

Glad to hear that everything seems ok.  I really hope you guys can work on this issue together! Good luck! 

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Thank you for the update. Glad to hear everything is ok.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Glad your going to try to work out your problems! It always makes me saw when follow bees have relationship problems.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@TupHoney:  Counseling is not a one size fits all approach. Good luck to you.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Do you see how things slowly escalate each time you have one of these fights? You say that previously he never went after you or your dog. You say that he would never hit/hurt you, but he flipped you off the mattress. You have one of these fights annually or so. Last year after the fight, perhaps you thought “he throws objects and breaks things, but I know he would never hurt me or the dog.” He did hurt the dog. And he could have hurt you with the mattress incident. 

Sorry, I hope things work for the best. I really do, but there are some major red flags and I just hope that you are aware of them. I couldn’t NOT point them out. I hope that your next big blowout, in a year or so, doesn’t result in him taking it one step further, but he seems like the type. Perhaps the ex keeps his child from him for a reason…

Post # 15
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@TupHoney:  i was one of the bees that stuck up for you bc of some of the other bees were extremely judgemental and you definitley werent here to be judged. Im happy you are ok! and happy you guys are trying to work through your problems

Post # 16
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Busy bee

@TupHoney:  Bit late, but I’m glad that you’re both working through things and thanks for the update lady! 

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