- 7 years ago
- Wedding: July 2011
Ok ladies… a few days back I wrote this post:
So.. now my wedding is a week from tomorrow; and my birthday is tomorrow! My daughter left this evening to goto her biological dads… (B) – well remember in my last post I had just found out that (B) was getting a divorce from (J) … well so B shows up to get my daughter; he still has NOT told me about getting the divorce yet. When he gets here he says we need to talk; I’m thinking here we go here it is…. NOPE! He says I no longer work for (JOB)! WHAT?! He says that the state (whom his JOB is contracted through) had been saying they were laying off, then said they werent and now came back to say they were laying off a few hunderd people. His choice instead of waiting it out and looking in the process…. He quits!!! Are we serious here! Now he gets laid off he goes to the child support people and he could have had it lowered based on his unemployment. but no no no he says he didnt want to wait around to see if they were going to lay him off after working there almost 5 years he just quit! So divorce and quits job! Now he still hasnt told me about the divorce!!!! He says he is going to work on a farm and he will mail my child support check to the agency instead of it being taken directly out.
He knows im getting married in a week; he also knows that I will still get my CS check on the 30th like normal; so why did he decide to pick this bomb to throw on me tonight?! I’m so ready to flipping scream it isnt even funny! I am so lost at what to do. The week I come back from my honeymoon I’m going to put a lawyer (had one in the state my daughter was born in but dont have one here in my hometown where I live now) on retainer; fill her in on the details and I guess go to court whenever she feels is a good time. That is just too much drama and turmoil to have a 3yr old in the middle of!!! UGH! Some people!
Then he adds… oh when is her first day of school I MAY want to go with you. 3 year of doing NOTHING with her ever except seeing her at his house but now that hes quit his job and getting a divorce he wants to pretend he is playing daddy so he looks good if i take him to court! I’m sorry but DNA does NOT make you a daddy!!!! AHHHHHH! Sorry!