Update On 15 Year Friendship Ending

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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7195 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@petalpetal:  How long ago did she read it? Sometimes I take a while to respond when I don’t know what to say.

Post # 4
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1793 posts
Buzzing bee

How long ago did you send it?  Maybe she is thinking about her response?  Can I ask why you didn’t actually call her and instead chose a FB message?

Post # 5
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

In this case then she’s an idiot. You reached out to her even though she was in the wrong. If she’s a stubborn person she probably sees it as you admitting it your fault by reaching out first, which is immature. Just be glad that you don’t have her in your life anymore. 

If I knew I was in the wrong but for some reason I was too proud to admit it, and then the person reached out to me, I’d be happy. 

How do you feel now that it’s officially over?

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

@petalpetal:  it’s been one day. She may have read it while busy with other things, and hasn’t had the opportunity to reply yet. I got a similar message from a friend (though she was in the wrong) and I took two weeks to get back to her. Once we worked it out, she told me she was a mess once I hadn’t replied within a day or two, but I took my time to see what my feelings really were on the situation. 

I don’t know your backstory, but your friend may be taking her time, and she’s entitled to that.

Post # 9
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11300 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

It’s only been a day. Give her some time–some people like to think about responses to stuff like this. I know I sometimes take a bit of time to think about messages and respond once I’ve processed what’s been said.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

@vorpalette:  +1

I honestly hate that now fb shows when I’ve read something. If someone sends something serious like this, I may take some time on how I want to respond

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