Post # 1
So, the Future Sister-In-Law hasn’t apologized or realized her ridiculous behavior…. I’m not exactly surprised.
Here’s my question now. Of course I have to invite her to the wedding because she’s FH’s sister…. but do I have to invite her to the rehearsal dinner? She’s coming in from out of state to the wedding. I’d really rather not have her and her drama in close quarters… our wedding is big enough that I can ignore her.
I feel like it’ll be awkward if I don’t… because my sister is in the wedding party and will be at our rehearsal dinner, but we haven’t asked his sister to participate in the Wedding Party. I just feel obligated since they’re traveling so far. Ugh. She just has a tendency to make a scene so I’m torn.
Post # 3
you should invite all immediate family
Post # 4
Inviting her is the right thing to do but you do not have to have her as part of your wedding party.
Post # 5
Invite her to the dinner but you do not have to have her in your bridal party, or in any part of your wedding other than guest. Kill her with kindness and he will look like the dumb-o not you!
Post # 6
Yes, you should invite her.
Post # 7
Also, when did this drama occur? You posted about it yesterday, so 24 hrs isn’t really much time. It’s obvious you’re still really fired up about the situation, but you need to be the bigger person and let it roll off you.
Post # 8
You need to invite her. Have a convo with FH and tell him that if she even starts to appear like she’s going to make a scene he needs to step up and tell her to leave.
Post # 9
You should invite her. Is that the only incident that has happened between you 2? If so, I would get together and try to talk it out.
Post # 10
I think it is one of those common wedding annoyances… but you have to invite her. It just makes you look mean, spiteful and tacky, if you don’t… EVEN if there are millions of justifiable reasons not to!
I have a tacky/hideous cousin that has done countless unforgivable things–BUT– she is my mother’s brothers daughter and my grandparents would feel extremely embarrassed if she was not invited. So- for their sake, I will grin and bare it.. She is like a tazmanian devil, she just destroys everything around her, but… I just have to suck it up. Hopefully on my wedding day, I won’t even notice or think about her once. I wish you the same!