Post # 1
First I want to thank eveyone who reached out on my board and gave me advice. It was so wonderful to get such love and support from this community. If you didn’t see the board you can find it here.
I just wanted to give you and update since I know so many of you were so worried. My Dad did a lot of digging (we were able to get a lot more information between four of us working) and was able to trace his phone to his stepdad. The address he gave my sister matched the phone number so now I’m just thinking he’s lying about his looks. He wants himself to look better than he is. I still worry a little about how controling he is and how shady he is, but I’ve backed off of my sister and am working on just talking to her every night and being a constant presence in her life.
Post # 3
I’m glad it’s not as scary as was originally thought. Here’s hoping that is all turns out for the best and you’re doing the right thing. Just be there for her so that if it does crumble or she wants to get out, she has a safe place to land. 🙂
Post # 4
I am glad at least you got that much information. good for you for being such a great big sister! fingers crossed that this is all handled by itself with a good outcome. ((HUGS)).
Post # 5
Yay! Thank you for the update!
Post # 6
Great job! She’s lucky to have a sister like you.
Post # 7
Thanks for the update! I’ll still keep your family in my thoughts. 🙂
Post # 8
Glad it isn’t as bad as you thought.
Post # 9
Thanks guys. I’m still hoping to get him to come meet us so I can see what we’re really dealing with, but we’ll see.
Post # 10
Thanks for the update. Glad it’s better than we originally thought.
Post # 11
@MissComicBook: Thank you for the update. I’m glad most of his information is matching up. I really hope that most of this works out though.
Post # 12
@MissComicBook: Just read your original thread. I think you’ve done the right thing by researching this guy extensively. While she may not be entirely receptive to it right now, she will thank you in the long run. What a wonderful older sister you are
Post # 13
@MrsB2012: Thank you. I’m trying so hard to lay off of her now even though I’m still not completely at ease. Hopefully she will come around.
Post # 14
She will figure it out eventually if she hasn’t already! I dated a guy a few years back who was everything he said he was (met him through a video games as well).. except he wasn’t the guy in the pictures (he was significant less attractive and definitely not my type) but I stayed with him anyways because we got along so well! We are still great friends.
She may or may not know what he really looks like but if she doesnt care about knowing then I guess you shouldnt either. I did digging on my own, presented him with my evidence and then he finally came clean. She needs to confront him! It will be a huge weight lifted of his chest.
Post # 15
Thanks for the update! i hope everything turns out fine