Update! The One That Got Away – Should I Contact Him?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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7211 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

@RN:  thanks for the update! Sounds like it went well! Are you going to wait for him to call or call him? And darn that waitress, how rude!

Post # 4
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169 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

well he must be a real hunk if the waitress wrote her number down lol. But so glad it went as good as it did. Him holding back is normal, but I’m sure you guys will pick up where you’s left off, and everyday things will be great. And soon enough things will progress. So happy for you! Give it a few days to hear from him, if not, you call him!

Post # 5
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9220 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@RN:  Glad it worked out well – so far.  At this point I’d say the ball is now in his court and you should wait for him to call you (or the weird waitress, lol).  😉  If he wants to see you again he’ll let you know something soon. 

Post # 6
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3007 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

WooOOO!!! I want regular updates.  Wait for him to call you

Post # 7
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3415 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Lodge

@RN:  Up dates please!  I think it sounds like things went well.  Maybe he’s nervous to get rejected again.  Maybe he just got out of a relationship.  Maybe he just wants to see how things go.  I’m hoping for the best for you.

Post # 8
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1199 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Its been since Friday and he hasn’t called or at least txtd you? At this point he should’ve at least txtd. I would txt him and just say it was great seeing him and you had a great time. Then see where it goes from there. Sometimes you have to take it upon yourself to make things happen. Don’t play the waiting game too long. 

Post # 10
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3557 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@RN:  I crushed on my FI for months and he never noticed, we’re talking lots of one on one hang out time. It took a couple of months of his bestfriend (a mutual friend) telling him hey I think Eckle likes you before it kinda clicked. It finally got cleared up when I straight up asked him if we were dating. According to FI guys just don’t do subtle hints, if I want him to know something I have to tell him in plain language.

Post # 11
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1199 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@RN:  That’s ok. Don’t lose hope now. Just txt him and see show he replies and where he takes the conversation. If you doesn’t engage in conversation or ask to see you again, then I say to just let it go and move on :(. 

Post # 12
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438 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Awww I love stories like this! Good luck! And wait but not for too long. He may be wanting to see if you will contact him since he was rejected in the past? Dunno, but it would be a shame if he got away.

Post # 14
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8905 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

@RN:  I think you’ve got to be kinda obvious about wanting to see him again.  He might be holding back cause you rejected him, or he might just be oblivious like a lot of men.  Call him, hang out, and make it obvious you’re pursuing him!  😀

Post # 15
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9412 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

@Sunfire:  +1. Exactly what I was going to say. I was waiting for the part of the post that said he threw the receipt in the garbage :- Maybe he just wanted to show off his hot new body? Time will tell.

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