- 7 years ago
- Wedding: January 2011
My fiance and I had a HUGE fight over this subject. He was devasted that all of this was happening. He was truly angry and took it out on me…. Telling me to break off the wedding and what not. The day after he calmed down and apologized. He re-proposed to me because he “broke” it off and swore to me that he will limit the time spent with them. (before we used to see the in laws once a week)
Anyway, I called his mother to talk about finances. She kinda flipped out on me but nothing too dramatic. The kicker is that his dad was yelling in the background yelling, “just don’t get married! just don’t get married!” I hung up the phone without addressing the issue but the more and more I thought about it the more it made me mad. I called her back to talk to her about it.
I let her know that his dad acting that way puts me in an awkward position (to put it nicely). I asked her what she thought I should do. She didn’t have anything to say. I decided not to talk to his dad because he won’t listen to me. He’ll probably just call me a b*tch and hang up on me. So I tried the next best thing. SIGH~!
oh also, I told my FI what his dad said and his automatic response, “What?! What a nut job! What the hell is wrong with him?”