- 5 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
I wrote a post about Darling Husband slacking and honestly being a sucky husband and father. I deleted it because a friend of mine mentioned the wedding bee and I freaked. If some of you who posted remember that’s great! If not here’s an update still. lol
I talked to our church and we are looking into counseling. Darling Husband hasn’t gone to church for so long and yesterday Mother-In-Law and I asked him to join us. He said sure then was happy to go. At the end of service they told everyone who is recomitting their life to God to step up to the front and claim a tiny wooden cross. I thought for sure I would have to nudge him to go up there. Well, he went by himself and told me that things are going to change. This is where he belongs.
That’s a big first step for him!
He also applied for a job and finds out today if he got it! They did a background check on him last week and they said call today to find out! FX ladies he gets it! If not I have faith that something will come for him.
He has also been such a good daddy to our Dirty Delete. It makes me tear up to think about it. He hasn’t complained once when I ask him or tell hiim to help me with her. She’s a big daddy’s girl.
I realized that it was a part of me destroying him and making him sit. I would call him mean names and tell him he is worthless in this relationship when he doesn’t do anything. I wasn’t being a wife and encouraging him. That was my fault. I am learning how to be a wife and not his mother.
Thanks ladies for the support!