(Closed) UPDATE to Miserable and ashamed

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

Hope things work out for you.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee

Good luck with everything 🙂

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

i think you are making the best decision given the circumstances. i hope you find what you are looking for and i am glad youre not settling.

Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

You have a very tough thing to do, but you are a good woman to recognize this is necessary. I also think it’s very wise of you to not jump right into another relationship with this man, but to take the time you need to heal first.

Don’t beat yourself up over it, you have to do what is right for you.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Leaving your FI is actually a gift to him. He won’t feel that way at first and probably for a very long time but I admire your courage and your desire to see him happy. You will find happiness too. But I don’t know if it’s with this new guy or not. I’m glad you are not pursuing that for now. Try to smile 🙂

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I will be sending warm thoughts your way over the coming days.  What are you doing isn’t easy, but you know what is right for you, no one else does.

Best wishes.

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Good luck!

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Good Luck. Stay Strong.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Remember, you’re not alone! I think you’re making the right choice, and I’ll be rooting for you!

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I’m happy that you have made a decision. You must feel some relief. Yes, things will be hard for him and for you initially, but eventually both of you will meet someone who will let you know what “being in love” is supposed to feel like. Good luck and try not to be too hard on yourself. “HUGS”

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I hope the best for you.  At first it will be real hard but time really does heal. Good luck.

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I really wish you all the best luck dealing with this difficult situation.  I once had a boyfriend who threatened to commit suicide after I broke up with him, so I know how it feels having someone who feels like you are literally the only sunshine in their life.  It was very hard (and I did end up getting back with him for a time), but you will both be better once you are through it.

 

Can I ask though, why did your therapist never mention her observations to you in the past?  I would think that is an important thing to think through or have brought to your attention for you to process, so why did she never point it out to you before?

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