- 8 years ago
- Wedding: May 2010
So, I’ve started I think 3 threads about my totally unresponsive Bridesmaid or Best Man. Everyone who commented has been so supportive and helpful through the whole ordeal, I wanted to provide an update.
First of all, if you’re not aware of what happened I had not heard from her in about 3 months. No response to emails, texts, phone calls, facespaces, etc. I know that would trigger the thought that she’s dropped out, but it wasn’t that simple. I was just in her wedding in August. I organized her shower and bach party and drove her all around on her wedding weekend. I took time off work, spent a ton of money and we have been friends since childhood. Also, our parents are family friends and her parents are coming to my wedding! The deadline for ordering Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses was this past Saturday, so I kept trying to get a hold of her with no luck. I was really starting to worry and it is hard for her to just disappear like a lot of BM’s do to other brides, I was going crazy.
So on Friday night I was in the airport on my way to Houston and my phone rings and it’s her. She starts to tell me how tired she’s been lately, how she’s been going to bed early every night and therefore hasn’t responded to emails, etc. I then ask her why she’s been so tired to which she responds she’s pregnant! And she fully intends on being in my wedding and is totally excited but hadn’t ordered her dress b/c she wasn’t sure what size to get (she’ll be 6 months along).
Turns out, everything’s fine! I am very happy for her and happy to hear she is still in the wedding.
Thank you for all of your support, I couldn’t have gotten through this without all of you!