UPDATE: wording help (telling family that extra people can't come)

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
2562 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

It was nice of her to end her email like that, even though she’s being a bit of a pain-in-the-buttinski.

It will be over soon,… you’ll be married and there shall be a party in your honor! 😛

Post # 4
1793 posts
Buzzing bee

My goodness, that woman is relentless!

Post # 5
2056 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Argh, so annoying!  I hate when people are passive aggressive like that… not letting things go and then saying, “but it’s your day”.  Um, clearly you don’t mean that or we wouldn’t be having this conversation.

Post # 6
209 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Yeah, I immediately found the last line of the e-mail to be passive aggressive, too.

Sorry you’re dealing with that, it’s awful!  But she is right in saying that it IS your day so you can say, “No drama…just putting my foot down.  That is enough people.”  😉

Post # 7
2302 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

@vorpalette:  ‘i appreciate your understanding – fi and i are sticking with our original guest list, unfortunately sister a and sister b won’t be invited’. 

i feel bad you keep having to have this conversation!



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