(Closed) Updates and hopefully positive signs

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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13 posts
Newbee

Oh my god are we the same person?  All the intentions are there – he’s talked to my parents, we’ve done the ring shopping (although I have no idea if he has the ring or not), he is the one who talks about it all the time.  I told him I didn’t want to talk about ring stuff/wedding stuff anymore until we were actually engaged.  Two guesses as to who is not keeping to his own rule.  It’s frustrating but I try to remember that I am so lucky that he so clearly wants this and that he’s not just stringing me along.

We too had talked about a fall 2012 wedding, but I don’t think he actually knew how much time you really need to plan.  Once I explained that to him, he said, “Then I need to propose soon, huh?”  Have you explained that some places have to be booked as far as 18 months in advance?

The hardest part is the not knowing, and then trying to guess and analyze any details to see if you can figure out when he’s going to do it.  We are leaving for a trip in an hour and I’ve been on pins and needles trying to decide if this is it.  Alas, I have decided that this is not the weekend. 

Be happy that his intentions are there – so many other bees would kill for that!  My heart goes out to you for your family’s health problems.  I’m sure that everything will work out!

Post # 4
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3302 posts
Sugar bee

Well he better be planning a really good proposal for holding on to the ring so long- just joking- hope it happens soon!

Post # 6
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11 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Have you talked to him about this? My fiance started talking to me about wedding dates, etc. and I just flat out told him that emotionally I could not handle making ANY plans until we were officialy engaged. If he is your future husband, I am sure he does not want to see you hurt. So talk to him. Tell him how this is bothering you. Tell him that maybe you need to postpone planning if a proposal is not forthcoming.

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