- 8 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
First, I want to thank all of you wonderful ladies for your support, advice and kindness yesterday. I was really upset and I can’t tell you how much I appreciate all of you being there for me.
So…J got home from work last night and I let him do most of the talking….he said that he was sorry for what he said, and that the only question he had about us was whether he was good enough for me…he said he was so embarrassed that he had to question whether he was going to be a fiance’ and husband that I was proud to be with.
I told him that I was always proud to be with him and that if the drinking was a problem we would work on it together..and that I wanted to be with him for all time, not just the good times.
A lot more was said but this cold has still got my brain functioning on low..but it turned out that this was actually a good talk that brought us closer and opened up more discussion about getting engaged. Who knew that what I thought was a major problem could turn into such a good thing!