(Closed) Upgrade or not?

posted 6 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
9824 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

ALWAYS stick with what she wants, you can never go wrong doing that. And if her friends think you’re cheap instead of thinking “Yay she’s getting married!” then they aren’t very good friends.

Post # 4
3847 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2004

First of all, I think the ring is lovely.  Secondly, I would probably leave the ring as is.  If she specifically stated that she didn’t want a big diamond, than that ring is perfect.  I love that the stone is such great quality.

Post # 5
823 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

That is BEAUTIFUL. I’m sure she will LOVE it and who cares what her friends or other people think? You will never make everyone happy. It’s either too small or too big and flashy. All you can hope is to make HER happy, that’s the most important thing. You did an awesome job with the ring though and proposing in Italy? That will be the trip of a lifetime! Good luck and I say stick with what she wants!

Post # 6
2135 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I think the ring is beautiful and I love the band! I almost went with a diamond/saapphire band like that!

Post # 7
870 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

That ring is beautiful! You did a great job picking it out. And I don’t think the center diamond is small at all. It looks perfect in the setting.  Honestly!  Plus no matter what, she will love it simply because you chose it and proposed to her with it.  it is a gorgeous ring! She is going to be speechless!  Good luck and congrats!

Post # 8
20 posts
  • Wedding: November 2012

It’s beautiful! Leave it the way it is. You already know she’s going to love it. That’s what’s important! 

Post # 9
1015 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I think it’s gorgeous as is, but I’d leave the upgrade question to her. Tell her after you propose that you’d like to upgrade the center stone for her to a larger size. If she doesn’t want you to, she will insist that you don’t do it. If she doesn’t put up much of a fight, then she wants the bigger stone. 

I think you did a wonderful job with her ring, but it can’t hurt to ask her. 

Post # 10
927 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Don’t change it, it is stunning! Have a great time in Italy 🙂

Post # 11
2577 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I think it is lovely! Don’t change it!

Post # 13
2416 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I think its lovely and I wouldn’t change it! I’m also a nurse and never really wear my ring to work so keep that in mind and keep this one!

Post # 14
11395 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I think its PERFECT as is!

Post # 15
205 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

If you know she’ltalkie it then go for anything thing, you guys could upgrade at a later when it financially works for both of you. Congrats in advance!

Post # 16
3452 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Nicely done!  I think she will love it as is!

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