Upset about visit to jeweler. Thoughts? (Kind of long)

posted 3 years ago in Rings
  • poll: Should I say something about my experience with the young saleswoman?
    Yes, tell the manager or your saleswoman : (64 votes)
    90 %
    No, leave it alone : (4 votes)
    6 %
    Other (leave me a comment!) : (3 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 3
    3084 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    I would talk to the manager. The First Lady sounds so unprofessional. 

    Post # 4
    47 posts

    Ditto. The manager needs to be made aware of the salesgirl’s off-putting behavior so it can be corrected.

    Post # 5
    347 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2014

    I would be upset if someone mistreated my rings. I would mention it, and make sure she didn’t damage your rings. Also, maybe they will take the time to train their employees on proper jewelry handling when it’s someone else’s jewelry and not the stores. 

    Post # 6
    181 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: January 2012

    You should just call in and set a time when you can meet with your saleswoman to avoid telling and re-telling the problem.
    As for this other saleslady.. hows she supposed to know you dont like when other people try on your rings, unless you say something. You should have said something instead of silently hating her. Same thing for her mistreating your rings. As soon as you see that happening, pipe up!! I hope this gets resolved!! 🙂

    Post # 7
    1766 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Tell the manager immediately!!! Always go to the source of power first.

    Post # 8
    6407 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I can’t stand those pushy types. Hope your ring is not bent now. I’d certainly say something.

    Post # 9
    3344 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 2000

    @veggie_rachel:  tell, and be specific about what she did. They will need the specficis in order to train her not to do that any more.

    The business about putting on your ring–that seems like that would be an instant NoNo amoung people who work in a jewelry store. They wear their merchandise, but not YOUR belongings.

    Post # 10
    115 posts
    Blushing bee

    I wanted to say to tell the manager- which I think is the right thing to do cause you deserve better tan that – but I probably wouldn’t and I’d just stew on it 🙁 if you’ve got bigger stones than me you should totally tell the manager  🙂

    Post # 11
    1102 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    @veggie_rachel:  say something … for one most women dont want strangers putting on their rings … also the fact she was rough with your ring is very bad for someoen who works in her line of work … its important the store knows so they can correct her 


    if she does not know she is offeneding ppl she will never improve 

    Post # 12
    162 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    @veggie_rachel:  I would go straight to the manager if you have the option to (you don’t know what kind of working relationships the salespeople have and that may affect how it is explained to the manager), they should be made aware as it reflects badly on them.

    If someone put my ring on their ring finger I would have slapped them. 

    Post # 13
    1482 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013 - Creek club at ion, SC

    say something – if you dont i imagine someone a lot less gracious will so youll be doing her a favour.

    Plus dont suffer in silence – it will eat you up. What she did was dead wrong

    Post # 14
    1482 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013 - Creek club at ion, SC

    @sangriiia:  +1 on the slapping. I think my FI would have to resist the urge not to as well

    Leave a comment

    Sent weekly. You may unsubscribe at any time.

    Find Amazing Vendors