- 4 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
I am having a bit of an upsetting issue. My best friend who is like my sister for about 13 years now chose a girl that has never really been there for her to be her maid of honor. She was going to be my maid of honor in my wedding, but financial reasons came up and I wasnt able to have bridesmaids. She said she understood and wasnt mad. She told me she was going to be at my wedding and then the day it comes she doesnt show up because “she couldnt get off work.” I am feeling very betrayed and hurt by this. I was not asked to be a bridesmaid either which hurts. I dont know if this is something that I should be upset over but I am. Its like all of a sudden I was replaced by this girl, because they do everything together. I know I dont spend a lot of time with her anymore because of work, and family, but Im always there for her when she needs me. And she’s grown up too and she says she understands why we cant hang out all the time anymore. We always told each other growing up that we were going to be maids of honor in each others wedding. I feel very very betrayed. I dont understand why I wasnt chosen, she hasn’t asked my opinion on anything, I wasnt with her when she got her dress. I told her I could help with whatever but she just ignored that. Her wedding is in 3 days and my husband told me that if I feel this way maybe I shouldnt go. Im starting to feel like maybe hes right. I feel like maybe its time to end our friendship because obviously Im not that important to her.