Upset Non Bridesmaid

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

I would go to the wedding although I do think you are overreacting slightly. You admit you don’t spend a lot of time with her. A big part of choosing bridesmaids is picking who has been there for you the most and who you are close with. If you haven’t been a big part of her life recently, but this other girl has hung out with her regularily, she probably feels closer with this girl.

At this point I wouldn’t go though because it sounds like from her not coming to your wedding, not choosing you as a BM, there is some bad blood. If you guys hardly see each other and you feel ignored there isn’t much of a relationship to salvage.

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