- 7 years ago
My Fi had his bachlor party weekend. I am really easy going, laid back, trust is not an issue. I never dicated to him what he could or could not do for his party. If he wanted strippers, go for it, if not no big deal. He said he wanted a weekend away, sure have fun. I’m only doing a one night with my close gf’s, but he wanted to get away.
My Fi and I talked pretty regular durning the day, we own a home, have some pets, so normal daily chit chat, the dishwasher broke, I’ll be home late, can you feed the dog, stuff like that. When we are out with friends we don’t talk often, just a text or phone call to say hey I’m heading home, or we are having another drink, be home later on, call you when I leave.
The weekend of his party, I had a long distance shower to attend, we ran into a problem of what to do with the dog. The only option for us was to have the neighbor come and let the dog out. Our dog has some issues with people, so we were really nervous about the situation, not knowing how our dog would react to a stranger coming into the house, and none the less, I was bit uneasy that this guy had a key to our house, but FI said no worries, I’ll call and check in with him and such.
My Fi leaves early Friday morning, and was supposed to be home early Sunday morning. I never heard from him on Friday, no problem. Sat comes, I end up coming home early from the shower so I txt my Fi to reach out to the neighorbor to let him know not to come by. Never heard from him, the neighorbor comes over as I’m about to take a shower. Later in the day I send Fi a text msg like, hey how is everything, having fun? Don’t hear anything. Sunday morning comes, still no word. I text around 10, no response. I call at 11, no response. I call my sister ( her husband was there as well) I ask if she has heard from her husband, she said yeah, tells me all the stuff they did, like golfing and stuff. I was pretty hurt that I had NO idea and felt like an idiot that I hadn’t even talked to my FI. I had to ASK her when they were coming home. Around 12, I call my brother in law, since my FI was driving back with him. My FI gets on the phone, I’m like did it occur to you to call me? He played stupid. He finally got home around 5:00, went to bed, I was pissed at this point. He comes out to FINALLY address it with me at 10:00, and he said I wasn’t allowed to call you. I was like your 30 years old, and your “not allowed” to call someone. Grow up, I get the whole you don’t sit there and talk to your partner on the phone, we never were that couple that did that, but a simple text of hey, how are you, how’s it going, how did it work out with the dog or whatever, would have been nice.
Am I being silly.