Post # 1
I know it might sound crazy, but I love my sister and I know she wants to find someone. She’s just having a hard time finding the right person, and I and her friends agree that her criteria is what is messing her up.
I have some friends who found people through a free online dating site, and I signed up (with hubby’s blessing), to look anonymously at the guys who are messaging my friends (ya know, cuz they ask my opinion and stuff).
I realized though, that there might be some great potential guys there and I know what my sister really wants…
is it weird if i message some guys and try to get to know them in hopes of introducing them to my sister?
Post # 3
I think its a little strange, but it depends on the relationship you and your sister have. If my sister did that for me, I would be insulted. I would assume that she thinks I can’t find guys on my own, so she needs to help. You know what I mean?
Post # 4
I wouldn’t do it without your sister’s permission… That would be a bit rude in my opinion. I know that I would be at least a little upset if my sister went online to hook me up with some guys without me knowing lol.
Post # 5
1) I think it’s deceptive to talk to someone who is I assume seriously trying to find someone when YOU are not.
2) Your sister may or may not be open to online dating.
I do understand where you are coming from though. I felt the same way about my BIL and prodded him for months before I got him to agree to let me set up a account for him. With his approval.
Post # 6
My sister would be LIVID!
Post # 7
i say try and get your sis to sign up herself – i have a couple friends who have met online and have married or are engaged – i can think of 4 people that i know of that this has worked for them.
I dont think YOU should be the one to initiate it – what does that say to the other person about your sister ya know? i say give her a push to sign up herself 🙂
Post # 8
I think you should let your sister do this for herself if she so chooses.
Post # 9
If I was your sister and I found out you were doing something like this, I’d probably punch you.
Sorry, unless she asked for your help I think you should leave this one to her.