(Closed) Vasectomy……

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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3787 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I work for a doctor who does laser vasectomies. He always tells people that, yes sometimes it is reversible but don’t get one counting on being able to get it reversed.

Post # 5
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213 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2006

I think if you can you should wait a few more years. Not on the thought if your split he may want kids with another. But, just in case you decide in 2-3 years that you want a kid of your own. Just in case.. That is just my opinion. 🙂

Post # 6
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8475 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

You have about 4 years or so to still figure out if you want one not going past 40.  

However I’m confused as to what the problem is if he certainly doesn’t want a child?

It sounds like if YOU change your mind, you’d be the one leaving him for someone who wants one. And at 34, I can’t see that happening rather quickly. 

Just let him have the surgery or throw on a condom!

Post # 8
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8475 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

@RockStar33:  What about you going through the permanent bc surgery as well? 

Post # 9
Member
213 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2006

@RockStar33:  If you are set on not wanting kids, than go for it.. I have friends husbands who got it done. They all said it was worth it. They have kids and were done. My husband was going to have his done, but we had a second child and I had my tubes tied during my c-section. So, that solved that. LoL.. You just sounded like you may change your mind on kids. And, it would be hard if you did and you guys couldn’t have one. Ya know? That is why I suggested just wait a few more years. But, if you are 150% positive you don’t want kids, and so is he, than go for it. It is ultimately up to the two of you. No one else!

 

Post # 11
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213 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2006

@Rubbs:  It is less painful and less risk for a man to have a vasectomy, than a woman to have her tubes tied. The tubal can be longer recovery, also you can go into early menopause, you have heavier periods. It is better for the man to have a vasectomy. My husband was going to get it done, because it is better for men to. But, than I was having a second kid and c-section, so since I was open I had my tubes tied. But, I would never recommend tubal over vasectomy to anyone. Definitely easier for the male.

 

 

 

Post # 12
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8475 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

@RockStar33:  Ok. I’ll stop trying to help. Good luck!

Post # 13
Member
213 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2006

@RockStar33:  What do you want to know about the vasectomy? I can give you information, but I am not sure what information you are looking for?

 

Post # 14
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8475 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

@LoveS46:  Oh wow I see. I guess when it all comes down to it, nothing is 100%.  Kinda sucks. 

Post # 15
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846 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@RockStar33:  I am 30 and I do not trust myself with a decision that permanent. Maybe stay on bc and see how you feel in a year or so? Good luck!

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